You may have often heard phrases about the fact that men they only think about one thing, that for them sex is the most important thing, they would do anything to get a beautiful girl into bed, etc.
What's happening?!?
Yes, these clichés no longer exist…
- men have changed their attitude towards the sex in the last few years.
We have already talked about the decreased libido in young people which you can find below.
But we are talking about ALL men, from the greatest to the smallest.
Men are losing the desire to have sex, precisely them who seemed to have always and only that in mind. Now it is the women to take the initiative to bed.
Many women say that their boyfriends or husbands no longer have sex, they are the ones who take the plunge and sometimes they even get caught. refuse.
We don't know if it's positive or not, of course.. the usual ones phrases about men and sex do not do honor to the male gender at all, but now they are becoming the opposite.
Maybe because they find the right woman they prefer to spend their time differently? Even with the new digital platforms, watching a series or a movie together and then falling asleep on the sofa, watching Instagram and having a laugh with the various reels, maybe some couples make videos together and these activities they take away time from sexual activity.
But also in the casual relationships, often when there is a flirtation, you immediately understand what you want, yet it happens very often that the man rejects the woman, who is neither his girlfriend nor his wife.
Sometimes, this type of man is even capable of blowing a date off because he has better things to do than have sex with an acquaintance.
Obviously every man is different from the other.
The case of male desire can depend on various factors, one should never generalize.
The causes can be truly varied: psychological issues, psychological problems (like depression and performance anxiety), relationship problems, emotional problemsi, maybe they make use of medications, alcohol or drugs.
Sex drive can also decrease due to tiredness, advancing age.
An low libido can also create some misunderstandings in the couple.
Constant libido can also be a consequence of a traumatic relationship or from suppression of sexual thought. In these cases even a provocation erotica can immense to arouse interest in man, sometimes, this stimulated man, even if not interested, she has sex so as not to displease her partner.. and it is an attitude that seen from the outside can be said “come on, how cute, at least he's trying”, but internally, in the relationship.. Who would want to make love to their partner just because they feel sorry or pity for us?
Il decrease in libido in humans it can also be caused by erectile dysfunction and genital pathologies.
But stay calm, everyone, because decreased libido can also be a temporary situation, without any illness, pathology, depression, etc.. perhaps due to fatigue, you come home late from work and the only thing you want to do is lie down on any soft surface and relax.
There are solutions…
A study, conducted from 2005 to 2009, shows the therapeutic efficacy of spironolactone in the treatment of hypertension.
But there are also natural remedies:
- Cinnamon and honey can help by providing energy and vitality;
- Smoothies with Maca, which has properties aphrodisiac and energetic;
- Ginger, Bach flowers, etc.
In short, there are solutions, and they are also varied... so men, don't go back to being the rough ones of a time when they only think about having sex, a middle way would be fine… and for everyone I say:
Don't have sex out of pity
